Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez’s children urge reconciliation ahead of the singer’s 55th birthday

Jennifer Lopez And Ben AffleckThe children are reportedly trying to get them to reconcile after news of their marital problems came to light.

The children believe that their parents love them very much and encourage them to continue the counseling.

Ben Affleck’s ex-wife Jennifer Garner is said to support the actor and Jennifer Lopez because she wants the best for the children.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck’s children “don’t want them to get divorced”

Lopez and Affleck have reportedly been living apart for several months, with the singer spending time with friends in Europe and the Hamptons while Affleck worked in Los Angeles.

Even their children, who used to be together a lot, now live separately because of their parents’ marital problems.

Affleck’s children Violet (18), Fin (15) and Samuel (12) are with him and Jennifer Garner in Los Angeles. Lopez’s 16-year-old twins Max and Emme have mostly stayed with her.

The five children are reportedly trying to help Lopez and Affleck reconcile. A source told Daily Mail“The kids think Jennifer and Ben really love each other, like soul mates, and they don’t want them to get divorced.”

“They want them to work it out, for better or for worse, as their vows say. And they feel the two should continue to talk and counsel each other, even if it’s painful. They believe there could be more peace if they do and say the right thing,” the source added.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck’s children highlight the positive qualities of each parent

The insider shared that the children can’t wait for Affleck and Lopez to reconcile before her 55th birthday on July 24 and hoped “that they could all have a cozy family celebration together in Los Angeles.”

It is said that children “highlight the positive qualities of each parent” which helps them make peace.

The insider noted that while the “Gone Girl” actor is intelligent and funny, he can also be prickly and grumpy.

“He’s a prickly guy, he can be grumpy, that’s definitely true, he’s not a happy-go-lucky guy, even though he’s very intelligent and funny. The kids are trying to get him to loosen up and let things go,” the source added.

Lopez, on the other hand, is being encouraged to work less and relax more. “The twins’ father, Marc Anthony, always said: Jenny needs to relax and enjoy her life more, he told her that for years. Now Max and Emme are doing the same,” the source explained.

The children have another motive: they all enjoy each other’s company and want to stay together as a family.

“The kids are getting along great, especially Emme and Fin, they’re best friends and talk to each other every day,” the insider said. “They’re telling Ben and Jenny, hey, don’t give up, don’t lose this.”

Why Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez haven’t announced their divorce yet

According to the Daily MailAn insider revealed that the divorce was supposed to be announced on the weekend of July 4th, but it never happened.

“There could be a delay or the plans for a final separation could be called off, no one is really sure now, not even their close friends really know,” the source said. “Everyone was waiting for the bombshell news, they got a lawyer and are ready to separate, but it hasn’t come,”

As for Affleck’s ex-wife Garner, she supports whatever is best for the kids. “She’s a super mom and always puts the kids first, so if the kids want Ben and Jennifer to get back together, she’s all for it,” another source shared.

The couple spent the 4th of July apart

Lopez celebrated the Fourth of July far away from her husband and her marital problems.

Accordingly People Magazinewas the entertainer in the Hamptons, hanging out with her manager Benny Medina and other close friends.

Carrying a stylish Dior shopping bag, Lopez was spotted shopping for plants in a video clip on her beauty brand’s Instagram page, wearing her wedding ring, which she recently removed.

While Lopez was having fun in the Hamptons, Affleck was spending time with his kids in Los Angeles.

The “Good Will Hunting” star was spotted with two of his children on Wednesday while showing off his wedding ring, which he has worn without several times.

Can Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck still save their marriage?

UsWeekly recently reported that there was a “fifth of hope” for a reconciliation between Affleck and Lopez. “Jennifer said they should take time to work things out,” a source said.

Another source told the publication that the couple, nicknamed “Bennifer 2.0,” have “still not made a decision” regarding the split.

“They’re going through so much individually and as a couple,” the insider claimed. “They may need some time to see if this complicated moment resolves and they come back to each other as better people.”

The last time Lopez and Affleck were seen together in public was on June 2 at his son Samuel’s basketball game in Los Angeles, where they shared an awkward kiss on the cheek.

Accordingly PeopleAffleck packed up his last belongings from their shared home while Lopez was vacationing in Italy last month.